Learning the dance: mother and daughter.

10 thoughts on “Learning the dance: mother and daughter.”

  1. So touching and so real. I love the idea of a healing dance. I know that in your dance of unconditional love and your steps of joy and happiness in all your blessings, she will be drawn to your heart, in her own time. In the meantime, she, like her mother, is determined to do things her way.

  2. Oh Tonya,
    I read this and thought of a friend of mine who could have benefitted from this wisdom and approach. She did not adopt, but gave birth to a child who she struggled to attach with and it caused her to slide into a terrible depression. She is 4 years down the road now, and she did build the bond with her son, but I wish I had these words to offer her back then. Your book will one day be a comfort to all mothers.

  3. Precious Tonya, don’t give up the pursuit! God will bless you for your patient persistance and your loving care for Kira. We’re cheering for you!!

  4. I can’t begin to tell you how excited I am for the both of you. I KNOW you will have an excellent mother-daughter relationship because you love her so deeply! Let us know the progress being made for June trip and what needs are developing.

  5. Keep dancing, friend. Keep dancing. We will pray for bonding and for toes stepped on to bring laughter along with the owies. Love the videos, btw. She’s adorable and delightfully vocal.

  6. God knows your heart Tonya…. he knows how sincere it is towards this beatiful baby.”dancing” is hard without a song but this song can only be given by God. the love you give this child can be compared to the one God has towards us….. how he keeps drawing to us n we push him away….. kira is just child… i dont think she knows a thing about what is going on ….. some times i think this mother-daughter relationship just develops. take heart honey.. God is in controll!

  7. God knows your heart Tonya…. he knows how sincere it is towards this beatiful baby.”dancing” is hard without a song but this song can only be given by God. the love you give this child can be compared to the one God has towards us….. how he keeps drawing to us n we push him away….. kira is just a child… i dont think she knows a thing about what is going on ….. some times i think this mother-daughter relationship just develops. take heart honey.. God is in controll!

  8. OH Tonya love begets love, one thing am sure off is, kira is going to love u so much that u will be over whelmed by her love, u were an angel to her.be patient it will happen soon.
    Martha

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